Interesting Questions for Your First Date
February 17, 2010 | 9 Comments
Some Tips
1. Questions help in learning about the other person’s tastes and interests and calculating whether both of you are compatible enough for beginning a romantic relationship.
2. Listen attentively to what your date has to say for conveying your seriousness towards the relationship. Other than the all important questions to keep a conversation going, attentive listening is an important ingredient for a nice date. It also helps in framing follow-up questions.
3. Try to keep the first date simple and short so that a lot of curiousness develops for the next dates in case you decide for the same. Risky discussions such as politics, past relationships and religion should be avoided.
4. Stay relaxed and add a tinge of humor to your conversation every now and then.
Some Basic Questions
As both the persons do not know each other properly during their first date, maintaining a flowing conversation can be a little difficult task. Some basic questions to keep a conversation going are:
What were you doing all day? This is one of the best conversation starters on first dates as it provides the other person with a chance to describe about him/herself and it also creates a good impression of you on account of your manners and politeness. This also provides us with an opportunity of learning about the other person’s personality based on the content of their description.
Do you like to keep pets? This is one of the most interesting questions to keep a conversation going as it usually initiates a nice and lively conversation. This question works irrespective of the fact whether your date is a pet lover or not as in any case the other person loves explaining their viewpoint. Such lively talks help in developing a comfortable air which is very much essential for having a fun-filled date.
What are your hobbies? This question again focuses on your date’s tastes and interests and hence they will love talking about it. It also helps you to calculate your compatibility with your date in terms of hobbies. If any common passion exists, it provides for an exciting topic to discuss upon. You can discuss about the reasons behind loving a particular hobby and your proficiency level in it. This also helps in gauging the personality of your date in terms of being work oriented or not.
What do you think about….? Such open ended questions are good to initiate a conversation with someone. You can ask questions about the present situation or something that has happened recently. Answers to such questions usually provide good discussion opportunities.
Such simple questions go a long way in striking a flowing conversation during a date. The most important thing about asking questions on a date is that you should always focus upon your date and make him/her speak out about themselves and always remember to keep a smile on your face. Smile, confidence, open ended questions, curiosity and attentive listening are important factors for having a remarkable first date in terms of conversation.
PeterHaliday
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What questions should I ask on a date?
February 8, 2010 | 1 Comment
So tonight I am going on a date with this guy I have liked for about 2 years. We are just going to the movies but I was wondering what appropriate questions I could ask him. I see him every day at school, but I need new interesting questions. Got any? oh and we are both 15 so questions for that age group.
Hi well why not just talk about everyday things,ask things like his likes n dislikes in movies tv shows actors etc and do same let him know urs OK? ♥
Interesting questions to ask on a date?
January 25, 2010 | 8 Comments
I would like to have a few interesting questions as a backup (to avoid those awkward silences). We have already talked about the classics (Job, Family, Travel,…) on our first date. So, I’d like to have some interesting and unusual questions in mind on my second date. Any ideas?
What are the top 3 things he wants to do before he dies?
If he could be any animal what would it be and why?
Tattoos? Does he have any? Where? If not, what would he get? Or what tattoo could he see on you?
Favorite dessert?
If he could change one thing about himself what would it be?
Would he rather be extremely wealthy or extremely attractive? (Hopefully for you he’s already both;)
What’s the first thing he would eat after being rescued from a desert island?
Chocolate or candy, which does he prefer?
I guess that’s enough. Hope that will be helpful. Good luck 
4 Ways to Instantly Seduce a Woman During Your Conversation
November 20, 2009 | Leave a Comment
Many guys make this mistake…
They go on a date with a woman and wait till the very END to try seducing her.
What is this is the mistake?
Well…
When you wait to the end of the date to try to seduce a woman, you’re wasting HOURS of time which could be spent building attraction and making her want to have sex. In essence, your goal is to build your entire interaction with a woman towards sleeping with her.
This means that seduction starts with your initial conversation. From the moment you see her every action should be working towards getting her in the bedroom.
How do you start?
In my opinion, the best place to start is during your conversation. If you know how to create a seductive interaction, then getting her into the bedroom will be a very simple process.
In the paragraphs below, I’ll reveal 4 ways you can create a seductive conversation with a woman that’ll make her beg you for things to become intimate.
Use an interesting opener
The way you approach a woman will make or break your chances of seducing her.
As a result, you must use an opener that is both unique and interesting. What you want to do is make her automatically attracted to what you’re saying to her.
To make her interested in you, tray asking a woman’s opinion on something that’ll spark her curiosity. Then once you have her attention, you can segue in to other topics.
Ask the right kind of questions
If you want to create a seductive conversation, you should avoid “interview” type questions like “Where do you work?” or “Where are you from?” Instead, try asking her interesting questions which are completely unique.
The best way to do this is to bring up questions that’ll create an interesting conversation. Some example questions would be “What would you do if ___ happened to you?” or “How would you spend a million dollars?”
What I like about “What if” questions is you’re able to discover a woman’s real feelings and aspirations. Once you do this, you’ll be able to connect to something she feels passion about.
Be cocky and funny
Another great seductive conversation trick is to use the cocky/funny technique pioneered by seduction guru David DeAngelo.
When you use cocky/funny, you tease a woman while trying to make her laugh. What you want to do during your conversation is keep on her toes while making her laugh.
With cocky/funny, she’ll think you’re a funny and interesting personality, but she’ll also wonder if you like her. By not being overt in your actions, you’ll make her work hard for your interest.
Discuss sex during your conversation
Discussing sex during a conversation is the best way to get it!
When you mention sexual innuendos and talk about it in a general manner, you’re introducing the topic into a conversation without being too sleazy.
A great way to do this is to ask her about “Girls Gone Wild” and what she thinks of it. Then when the conversation progresses, try teasing her and saying she’s probably done something like that before.
If you can tease her and be cocky/funny, you’ll mention sex in a funny and interesting manner.
Now once the conversation is flowing and you’re comfortable with casually talking about sex, you’ll be on your way to seducing her.
So remember- if you’re serious about turning a date into an intimate encounter, you have to know how to be seductive during your conversations. All you have to do is follow these four tips and you’ll become the kind of guy who can instantly seduce a woman!
Scott Patterson
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Using an Online Dating Coach to Find Love, Happiness… and Even Find Your Soulmate!
October 10, 2009 | Leave a Comment
In this age of technology, where you find yourself faced with more time-saving devices than ever – and are simultaneously busier than ever – it is gratifying to know that you have new resources available to help you find love… happiness… and even find your Soulmate.
Internet Dating is gaining in popularity and no longer holds the stigma it did even five years ago. Online dating and matchmaking services have become highly regarded as reliable ways to take the guesswork out of dating. For those who have concentrated heavily on their careers – only to find that with success comes less time for dating – online dating services have become an invaluable tool in helping singles meet like-minded others.
Want to Find your Soulmate? The Online Dating Coach to the Rescue!
As an added benefit to the convenience of online dating, clients can also receive the services of an Online Dating Coach or “Love Coach” as we’re sometimes referred to by our clients. As a professional guide and consultant, a Dating Coach is now in demand by singles who are looking for guidance. Many professionals understand how important it is to describe the best parts of their personalities in writing – and this is where a Dating Coach can really help you shine!
An Online Dating Coach is an expert and will create an outstanding Online Dating Profile for you. There aren’t many Online Dating Coaches in the world, but those who choose this profession are often talented – and even masterful – at creating a dating profile. The coach’s talent will be crucial to the client who has a lot to offer in a relationship, but who just isn’t skillful at putting his or her ideas down on paper.
An Online Dating Coach will typically conduct an initial telephone interview with you, asking you lots of very interesting questions. During the first coaching session, your dating coach will take a look at your personality. By asking you a series of personal and revealing questions and paying attention to how you reply, your coach will use this information to create a dating strategy just for you.
Be honest with your dating coach in expressing what you’re looking for. In addition to describing your personality in your dating profile, your coach will help you be realistic in your search for a relationship. If you’re an average-looking guy collecting unemployment benefits with three young kids at home, it’s unlikely you’ll be dating a world-famous supermodel – no matter how much you think you might want to.
But on the other hand, your coach will also help you achieve the best results possible. Often an average-looking man or woman can be made to look and sound much better than they might sound on their own, just by highlighting and accentuating their best qualities. Your coach will also help you write Letters of Introduction. This will benefit you in several ways – for one, your response rate to your dating matches will almost certainly increase, and you’ll have access to more attractive partners.
As an emerging new category of personal coaching, the role of the Online Dating Coach will almost certainly expand over the next five to ten years. As Online Dating grows in popularity, so will the role of the Dating Coach in serving the needs of clients worldwide who flock to dating sites in search of their Soulmates!
The Online Dating Coach
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