Date Ideas


First Date Ideas- How to Make a Big Impression

Meeting someone for the first time…..your first date! Most of you will try quite hard to make that lasting impression on the first date, yet in spite of your best efforts the experience may not work out as expected. It is not always easy to brainstorm great first date ideas. However there are numerous ways to impress and entertain your date. Let your creative juices flow and decide on something that both of you will enjoy and remember for years together.

Here are some enjoyable and exciting ideas to bowl over your date:

Getting to Know Each Other

Though most of us have the ability to carry out easygoing, smooth conversations with friends and family we may become embarrassingly tongue-tied on a first date.
First date questions are often a cause of worry even for smooth talkers…Does that mean you wouldn’t know what to ask your first date?

No more choking up! No more lumps in your throat! You and your date are going to talk and laugh like you’ve known each other for ages once you become aware of the questions that you should be asking your date.

  • You can start off by asking a very useful yet thought-provoking question, “What are you looking for in a relationship?” A genuine answer to this question will help in making expectations clear upfront, reduce nervousness and allow you to focus on your date. For example- If the other person wants to start a family while you are looking for some fun, then its time to move onto that second date!
  • You can carry on by asking personal questions that will allow you to gauge the personality and lifestyle of the person. However be careful not to get too personal and cause discomfort to your partner. Questions like the following are catalytic in continuing the conversation yet make the process easy and fun for both:
    • Tell me about your family?
    • What is your take on relationships?
    • What do you enjoy doing for fun?
    • Do you enjoy watching movies? What types?
    • How do you feel about (you can take up any issue here)…?
    • When was your last relationship?
    • What are some of your goals in life?
    • What are some of your pet peeves?
    • What do you do for work and do you like it?

Bear in mind that it’s always better to ask questions on and off or during a discussion of a similar topic. You surely don’t want to start firing off questions and make it sound like an interview!  You must also be sensitive about how your date is handling the questions, if you sense any discomfort, do not push the issue. Remember first date questions are meant to have fun and know more about the person not to scare them away!

First Date Tips at Your Fingertips

First dates are only as painful as we all make it out to be. However when it goes perfectly, first dates are a great way to gauge compatibility and chemistry. A few simple first date tips can eliminate any unnecessary pain.

A Place to Meet

Although it is tempting to go all out on the first date, low-key plans are better. When thinking about the perfect location for your first date, consider the following tips:

  • The less crowded, the better. Both of you should be able to focus on each other rather than get distracted by the crowd. However avoid deserted areas which may attract negative attention.
  • Pick a nice, simple place where you can relax and enjoy as well. A good restaurant, comedy clubs, sporting events, video arcades, bowling, miniature golf, and concerts are also good bets to break the ice and remove tension on the first date.


Dressing Up to Impress

A seemingly obvious tip is to be neatly groomed for the special occasion.

  • Dress appropriately for the date and dress up for the location. If you are going to sit at a restaurant a formal dress will look great, but if you are going to move around and enjoy then casuals should be a great idea. Just remember- neither over do things nor look shabby.
  • A very common mistake that ladies make on their first date is to dress seductively. Extremely provocative clothing may give the impression that you are only looking for a physical encounter. Remember, first impressions last long!


Be Your Best Self

  • It is important to be your best self. At this stage, you are just getting to know each other and as of now a certain amount of self restrain is necessary.
  • Be upbeat and positive in your attitude. Your conversation and discussions should be pleasant and easy. Being yourself makes you naturally more attractive.


Follow Your Heart and Your Hormones

  • Times have changed; kissing on the first date is no more a taboo. However it depends entirely on both of you, if you felt a real spark, and loved each others company… then just go ahead.

As you part with your date, you will have probably made up your mind about the compatibility. Be honestly upfront about your feelings. If you did have a great time, say so. On the contrary if you know there will be no second date, say that too.

It’s best to play it safe when it comes to the first date, give yourself time to explore various first date ideas before taking the plunge.

OVERVIEW

When done correctly, first dates are a great way to gauge chemistry, compatibility, and communication. Dating isn’t as painful as we all make it out to be. Just be honest, be yourself, have fun, and soon you’ll be the one giving out the first date ideas!

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